How to squirt (ejaculate) yourself

Learning how to squirt is incredibly fun, especially when you do it with your lover. But many women struggle to learn the art and never figure out how to do it properly. This guide will show you how to squirt and achieve intense orgasms, whether during sex or masturbation. Before you learn how to make yourself squirt, it's important to understand what's actually going on in your body.

 

What is Squirting?

Many women believe that when they ejaculate, they are actually peeing. This can happen but is rare.

Instead, when you ejaculate, you actually ejaculate fluid from the Skene's glands (the female prostate), which are located above the G-spot and very close to the bladder.

When the Skene's gland is stimulated, it fills up and then releases fluid through the urethra, which is the tube that urine passes through.

As a result, many women report feeling like they are about to pee when they ejaculate. This is a completely normal feeling. But the important thing is that it is not pee, even if it feels like you are peeing.

Unlike learning a new sex position where you simply copy a picture or diagram you find online or in a book, learning how to make a woman (or yourself) ejaculate takes a lot more work. It's half mental, half physical.

 

Here are some ways to help you squirt during sex or masturbation:

1. Relax your mind.

 

You probably won't magically make yourself ejaculate by focusing on masturbation techniques alone. You also need to learn how to relax and let go properly in order for ejaculation to happen for you.

So the first thing to learn is that feeling “Go Pee” when you are about to ejaculate is completely normal.

It’s important to clear your mind and relax so that things can flow more easily. This is the most important step – many women fail to ejaculate because they are simply holding themselves back instead of just letting go and going with the flow.

2. Water-Water.

 

Before you actually start, make sure you drink a few glasses of water to stay hydrated. It doesn't have to be much, but half a liter to a liter is perfect.

Then, right before you lie down or jump into the shower to start trying to pee, make sure your bladder is empty. This will help you not worry so much about peeing when you ejaculate and also prevent too much urine from flowing out (but if you can't pee, don't force yourself to, just let it happen naturally and comfortably).

3. Prepare the bed (in case it gets wet).

 

Because things can get a little messy, prepare the bed with a few towels (towels, liners) or something you don't mind throwing in the washing machine afterwards so you don't get any liquid on the mattress.

4. Put yourself in a good mood.

 

 If you are in bed, make sure that you will not be disturbed by anything around you and that you are in the mood.

You might want to try watching some porn or just fantasize about your favorite hot scenarios and scenes.

Arousing yourself is an important part that many women overlook. To squirt, you first need to slowly build up your arousal over 15 to 30 minutes.

5. Don't try to orgasm too quickly. Take your time.

 

Don't try to orgasm right away, just make sure you get closer. Try to spend most of the time focusing on her and don't worry too much about penetration.

Once you're feeling aroused, it's time to focus on actually making yourself ejaculate.

6. Find your G-spot.

 

To start, you need to find the G-spot, which is located inside your vagina. You’ll know when you’ve found it because it feels a lot like a wet raspberry – soft, wet, and slightly sunken.

7. Use your finger to press on the G-spot.

 

Start building up the stimulation slowly. Pay attention to how it feels. The purpose of this experiment is to figure out exactly what feels best and most pleasurable to you.

Most women find that using more pressure feels the best, so don't be afraid to add more.

If you find yourself unable to get enough stimulation, simply use a sex toy (the ones you need here: https://queensextoy.com/danh-muc-san-pham/sextoy-cho-nu/ ) instead of using your hands. This is also a good idea if you find your wrists starting to hurt.

8. When you feel like you're about to orgasm (or if you feel like you're about to pee), relax and let it happen.

 

As you apply more and more pressure, you will indirectly stimulate your Skene's gland (the female prostate). In doing so, you will bring yourself closer to squirting.

The moment you feel like you are about to ejaculate is very important. Feel that feeling and just let go, you will experience that wonderful rush.

If you are scared and feel like you are about to pee but it keeps stopping and you can't do it, so the most important thing right now is that you need to relax and let your body do what it will do when you learn this way your body will squirt on its own.

9. Don't worry if you don't orgasm yet.

 

One important thing to note is that while most women orgasm and squirt at the same time, some women can achieve this without actually having an orgasm.

So don't worry too much if you have trouble reaching orgasm while trying these techniques – they don't always happen together.

10. Try some other methods to get you wet if the first one doesn't work.

If you are learning how to squirt for the first time and are having trouble getting it right, don't worry!

Instead, try to focus on what feels fun and pleasurable. It may take a few tries before you discover the specific nuances and techniques that will help you squirt.

• If you are unsure whether you have sprayed or not:

With some different women squirting in different ways.

While some women can shoot a 5-foot stream of squirt, others simply squirt or gently release fluid without much force. Both types of ejaculation are completely normal, so don't worry if you experience one and not the other.

• If you cannot ejaculate during sex with your partner:

Often, women report being able to ejaculate during masturbation, but having a lot of difficulty ejaculating during sex with a partner.

Again you should understand that this is completely normal and nothing to worry about. Just give yourself time and learn how to squirt yourself eventually things will happen that will surprise you.